Pet Loss and Rainbow Bridge

rainbow bridge, pet loss, grief, healing

By Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Grief

 

I TELL you, hopeless grief is passionless;
That only men incredulous of despair,
Half-taught in anguish, through the midnight air
Beat upward to God’s throne in loud access
Of shrieking and reproach. Full desertness,
In souls as countries, lieth silent-bare
Under the blanching, vertical eye-glare
Of the absolute Heavens. Deep-hearted man, express
Grief for thy Dead in silence like to death–
Most like a monumental statue set
In everlasting watch and moveless woe
Till itself crumble to the dust beneath.
Touch it; the marble eyelids are not wet:
If it could weep, it could arise and go.


Immortality

Immortality

Do not stand at my grave and weep…
I am not there. I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awake in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift upflinging rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starshine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry…
I am not there. I did not die.
by Robert Hepburn

 

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From The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupery

IN ONE OF THE STARS
I SHALL BE LIVING
IN ONE OF THEM
I SHALL BE LAUGHING
AND SO IT WILL BE
AS IF ALL THE STARS
WERE LAUGHING WHEN YOU LOOK
AT THE SKY AT NIGHT.

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This is Lottie.

 

After A While


After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand
and chaining a soul
and you learn that love doesn’t mean
leaning
and company doesn’t always mean security.

And you begin to learn
that kisses aren’t contracts and
present aren’t promises
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of a woman
not the grief of a child
and you learn
to build all your roads on today
because tolmorrow’s ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down
in mid-flight.

After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting
for someong to bring you flowers.

And you learn
that you really can endure
that you really are strong
and you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodby you learn.

Written by Veronica Shoffstall  alf-2.jpg       This is Alf.

Lend Me a Pup


I will lend to you
a puppy, God said,
For you to love him while he lives
and to mourn for him when he is gone.
Maybe for twelve or fourteen years,
or maybe for two or three
But will you, till I call him back
take care of him for me?

He’ll bring his charms to gladden you
and (should his stay be brief)
you’ll always have his memories
as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise that he will stay,
since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught below
I want this pup to learn.

I’ve looked the whole world over
in search of teachers true
And from the folk that crowd life’s land
I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love
Nor think the labour vain
Nor hate me when I come to take my pup back again.

I fancied that I heard them say
“Dear Lord Thy Will Be Done,”
For all the joys this pup will bring,
the risk of grief you’ll run.
Will you shelter him with tenderness
Will you love him while you may
And for the happiness you’ll know forever grateful stay.

But should I call him back
much sooner than you’ve planned
Please brave the bitter grief that comes
and try to understand.
If, by your love, you’ve managed
my wishes to achieve,
In memory of him that you’ve loved,
cherish every moment with your faithful bundle,
and know he loved you too.

The Gift

I gave a gift to a friend yesterday,
  With a heart not light nor hardly gay.
  Not as a Wiseman come to honor life,
  But just a fool trying trying to do what’s right.
  I gave not because I’m wise or smart,
  But because of a tearing at my heart.
  My friend’s joy in life had long since gone.
  In patient pain the days were long.
  My friend gave to me life at its best,
  So in love, I gave her my gift of death.

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From Sweden

As the wind
blows the petal from the flower,
you were taken from us this night
As the rain moistens the petals
you lost thy lustre
But in the memory it grew
as a flower in the memory
always is bigger
than it in the reality,

                                                        was or is.

Senator George Vest’s Tribute to a Dog

The best friend that a man may have in the world may turn against him and become his enemy. The son or daughter he has reared with loving care may prove ungrateful. Those who are nearest and dearest, those whom we trust with our hapiness and our good name, may become traitors to their faith. The money that a man has, he may lose. It flies away from him, perhaps when he needs it most. A man’s reputation may be sacrificed in a moment of ill-considered action. The people who are prone to fall upon their knees to do us honor when success is with us, may be the first to throw the stone of malice when failure settles its clouds upon our heads.

The one absolutely unselfish friend that a man can have in this selfish world, the one who never deserts him, the one who never proves ungrateful or treacherous, is his dog.

A man’s dog stands by him in prosperity and poverty, in health and in sickness. He will sleep on the cold ground, where the wintry winds blow and the snow drives fiercely, if only he may be near his master’s side. He will kiss the hand that has no food to offer. He will lick the wounds and sores that come from encounters with the roughness of the world. He guards the sleep of his pauper master, as if he were a prince. When all other friends desert, he remains. When riches take wings and reputation falls to pieces, he is as consistent in his love as the sun in its journey through the heavens. If fortune drives the master forth as an outcast in the world, friendless and homeless, the faithful dog will go with him. And when the last scene of all comes, no matter if all other friends pursue their way, there will the noble dog be found, his head between his paws, his eyes sad but open in alert watchfulness, faithful and true, even in death.

A Pets Prayer to Saint Peter

 

A Pet’s Prayer to Saint Peter

 

I have traveled far to reach this Pearly Gate

But I do not want to wander byond this place.

I just need to rest awhile for my friend I wait.

 

Please let them know I love them still.

Let them know that I understand

What they did, they did with love.

With my body gone, my spirit flew

On the wings of a dove

To my Creator’s Heaven above.

 

Now I ask that I may wait.

I will lay quietly here by the gate.

For if I entered now without my friend,

It wouldn’t be Heaven at all.

 

John Quealy

Waiting

WAITING

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I got to the gate of Heaven yesterday
after we said good-bye.
I began to miss you terribly,
because I heard you cry.
Suddently there was an Angel and she asked me
to enter Heaven’s gate.
I asked her if I could stay outside
for someone who’d be late.
I wouldn’t make much noise you see,
I wouldn’t bark or howl.
I’ll only wait here patiently
and play with my tennis ball.
The Angel said I could stay right here
and wait for you to come
Because Heaven just wouldn’t be Heaven
if I went in alone.
So I’ll wait right here, you take your time,
but keep me in your heart.
Because Heaven just wouldn’t be Heaven
without you to warm my heart.

 

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