Pet Loss and Rainbow Bridge
rainbow bridge, pet loss, grief, healingBy Elizabeth Barrett Browning
Grief
I TELL you, hopeless grief is passionless;
That only men incredulous of despair,
Half-taught in anguish, through the midnight air
Beat upward to God’s throne in loud access
Of shrieking and reproach. Full desertness,
In souls as countries, lieth silent-bare
Under the blanching, vertical eye-glare
Of the absolute Heavens. Deep-hearted man, express
Grief for thy Dead in silence like to death–
Most like a monumental statue set
In everlasting watch and moveless woe
Till itself crumble to the dust beneath.
Touch it; the marble eyelids are not wet:
If it could weep, it could arise and go.
Immortality
Do not stand at my grave and weep…
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awake in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift upflinging rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starshine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry…
I am not there. I did not die.
by Robert Hepburn
From The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupery
IN ONE OF THE STARS
I SHALL BE LIVING
IN ONE OF THEM
I SHALL BE LAUGHING
AND SO IT WILL BE
AS IF ALL THE STARS
WERE LAUGHING WHEN YOU LOOK
AT THE SKY AT NIGHT.
This is Lottie.
After A While
After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand
and chaining a soul
and you learn that love doesn’t mean
leaning
and company doesn’t always mean security.
And you begin to learn
that kisses aren’t contracts and
present aren’t promises
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of a woman
not the grief of a child
and you learn
to build all your roads on today
because tolmorrow’s ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down
in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting
for someong to bring you flowers.
And you learn
that you really can endure
that you really are strong
and you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodby you learn.
Written by Veronica Shoffstall
This is Alf.
Lend Me a Pup
I will lend to you
a puppy, God said,
For you to love him while he lives
and to mourn for him when he is gone.
Maybe for twelve or fourteen years,
or maybe for two or three
But will you, till I call him back
take care of him for me?
He’ll bring his charms to gladden you
and (should his stay be brief)
you’ll always have his memories
as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise that he will stay,
since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught below
I want this pup to learn.
I’ve looked the whole world over
in search of teachers true
And from the folk that crowd life’s land
I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love
Nor think the labour vain
Nor hate me when I come to take my pup back again.
I fancied that I heard them say
“Dear Lord Thy Will Be Done,”
For all the joys this pup will bring,
the risk of grief you’ll run.
Will you shelter him with tenderness
Will you love him while you may
And for the happiness you’ll know forever grateful stay.
But should I call him back
much sooner than you’ve planned
Please brave the bitter grief that comes
and try to understand.
If, by your love, you’ve managed
my wishes to achieve,
In memory of him that you’ve loved,
cherish every moment with your faithful bundle,
and know he loved you too.
The Gift
I gave a gift to a friend yesterday,
With a heart not light nor hardly gay.
Not as a Wiseman come to honor life,
But just a fool trying trying to do what’s right.
I gave not because I’m wise or smart,
But because of a tearing at my heart.
My friend’s joy in life had long since gone.
In patient pain the days were long.
My friend gave to me life at its best,
So in love, I gave her my gift of death.
From Sweden
As the wind
blows the petal from the flower,
you were taken from us this night
As the rain moistens the petals
you lost thy lustre
But in the memory it grew
as a flower in the memory
always is bigger
than it in the reality,
was or is.
A Pets Prayer to Saint Peter
A Pet’s Prayer to Saint Peter
I have traveled far to reach this Pearly Gate
But I do not want to wander byond this place.
I just need to rest awhile for my friend I wait.
Please let them know I love them still.
Let them know that I understand
What they did, they did with love.
With my body gone, my spirit flew
On the wings of a dove
To my Creator’s Heaven above.
Now I ask that I may wait.
I will lay quietly here by the gate.
For if I entered now without my friend,
It wouldn’t be Heaven at all.
John Quealy
Waiting
WAITING
author unknown
I got to the gate of Heaven yesterday
after we said good-bye.
I began to miss you terribly,
because I heard you cry.
Suddently there was an Angel and she asked me
to enter Heaven’s gate.
I asked her if I could stay outside
for someone who’d be late.
I wouldn’t make much noise you see,
I wouldn’t bark or howl.
I’ll only wait here patiently
and play with my tennis ball.
The Angel said I could stay right here
and wait for you to come
Because Heaven just wouldn’t be Heaven
if I went in alone.
So I’ll wait right here, you take your time,
but keep me in your heart.
Because Heaven just wouldn’t be Heaven
without you to warm my heart.

